Follow these steps,
remove the module first for your flysky 9ch
install the needed simulator from dvd (for ex: aerofly)
select aerofly in the dongle (there will be a switch)
plug the dongle
plug the other end to transmitter
switch on the transmitter
if you are using win7 the drivers will install automaticaly..
i am using similar simulator for flysky 6ch, works fine and great(bought from satyagupta
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